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The Death of an American Franciscan Friar of the Immaculate, Rev. Father Alphonsus Maria Sutton
In 1977, when the author entered the Convent of the Blessed Virgin Mary of Good Counsel, today known as the Mother House of the Franciscans of the Immaculate, among the others, he met an American diocesan priest, Fr. William Sutton, who then was 57 years old, born in 1919. Tall, thin, with a rather robust face caused by a chronic skin allergy, with blue-gray eyes that were difficult to see because of his habit of keeping them cast down, always dressed in a black cassock that he used to tie with a fringed sash. Fr. William came to be from an occasional guest of the Community to one of its members, despite the fact that he used to travel often to Rome where he was concluding his doctorate in Moral Theology and working at the publishing office of the missionary magazine "Christ to the World - Le Christ au le Monde", at that time directed by a Belgian priest Fr. Marchand.The story of his life, that we go to know about little by little, because he did not indulge much at all in talking about himself, especially in public, could be defined as the story of a soul searching for the truth with a rectitude of one intention alone, very similar to that of the newly beatified John Henry Newman. Born in a Presbyterian family that was morally puritan, from when he was little he had a great sense of good and evil; one day he confided to me that when he was still a young boy, he respectfully reproved his grandmother that he had heard tell a little 'lie' during a conversation. Being scolded by her grandson, the elderly lady humbly recognized her fault. This helps us to understand what the climate was like in which young William was formed.
When he grew up, William finally found the truth in the Catholic Church. From his conversion came also his vocation to the priesthood that came about on June 15th, 1957 when William Sutton was 38 years old. Based in the Diocese of Memphis, for many years he was responsible for the catechesis of the adults who were asking to enter the Catholic Church, above all Protestants.
This greatly fertile apostolate was interrupted by the Post Conciliar crisis that was particularly strong in America. For Fr. William, a period of reflection about what was taking place followed; his moral and intellectual rigor could not remain indifferent to what seemed to be a 'revolution' in the Church. However, alongside this rigor, rather the heart of the rigor itself was humility, and his crisis was resolved with a very simple act of faith: the Church cannot be abandoned by the Divine Master, and the Council in itself cannot be a lowering of the Post Conciliar theories, often resulting in a willfully distorted interpretation. Added to this was the knowledge of Padre Pio, not directly but through the biographies and the spiritual children of the great Capuchin, that he gained an esteem and devotion towards Pope Paul VI from, an esteem that the Holy Father also had for Padre Pio. The American priest, the completely converted Protestant, that would have been able to fall in the net of extreme traditionalism, submitted himself with a tranquil soul to the celebration of the Holy Mass according to the new rite. Later, getting to know Casa Mariana and Father Stefano confirmed this conviction for him even more.
Coming to Rome to further his studies, he chose the doctrine of St. Alphonsus Maria de' Liguori as a topic to which he dedicated all his energy to deepening his knowledge of. Alongside the holy Neapolitan Doctor of the Church, both a popular and at the same time highest intellectual level author, another great figure was a point of reference for Fr. William: Saint Anthony Maria Claret, Bishop of Cuba, Founder of the Congregation of the Sons of the Immaculate Heart of Mary, confessor of Queen Isabella II of Spain, great enemy of Masonry who dies exiled in France. The courageous dedication to the priestly ministry of this Bishop, the most noteworthy of the 1800's in Catholic Spain, certainly gave Fr. William a model that inspired him. In fact, the zeal in the confessional and in preaching, despite the difficulties with the Italian language that he was never able to speak fluently, reminded one the untiring activity of Claret. For whoever met Fr. William, one thing that used to make an impression was that he was never seen idle, always busy studying, writing articles for the magazine 'Christ to the World' (sometimes until late at night), in preparing or going over homilies or in prayer. It makes us think that he may have made a vow not to waste time, like Saint Alphonsus, persevering in this rhythm as long as the years and his health permitted it.
As we have already mentioned, Fr. William found out about the experience of Casa Mariana which came forth from the Order of the Conventual Friars Minor, taking its inspiration from the life, teachings and the apostolate of Saint Maximilian Maria Kolbe. Initially there were a few occasions then later, longer periods until Fr. William became a constant guest of the community. The environment of silence, prayer and work suited him and he adapted himself so well that he was more observant, and in no way less than many of the members of the community. He was always the first in the chapel, with a retired style of life as we have said, constantly immersed in work and study. He distinguished himself for the spirit of penance that did not leave room for any complaints for the Winter cold despite the fact that this gave him chilblains on his hands, or for the food, rather he used to add to the regular penances the community practiced.; often times, passing by his door during the day, one was able to hear the noise of the discipline, taken perhaps as penance for some soul he had met in the confessional and in need of some particular kind of help. He knew how to transform even the most simple gestures of daily life into penance. He became famous among the friars, especially among the novices at that time (one knows that by nature, novices are all eyes and all ears), the episode of the shower that Fr. William used to take cold in a Spartan fashion; one day, one of the friars was standing in the bathroom next to the showers and under the flow of water, he heard some words pronounced by Father with his unforgettable accent; what was he saying? "Purgatory, purgatory". Fr. William was offering that cold for his own sins and most probably for the Holy Souls in Purgatory. The episode, obviously referred to the other friars by the brother made us laugh, but behind that youthful and apparently light hearted laughter, the friars' esteem for that American priest increased and by this time they considered him to be part of the community. Many friars chose him as their confessor.
All that needed to be done now was to formalize a life that was already Franciscan. The 7th of December, 1980, just a few days after the terrible earthquake hit Irpinia where Casa Mariana is situated, Fr. William Sutton was clothed in the Seraphic habit, starting his novitiate and taking the new name that indicated a program of life. The new name could not be anything but that of the great Doctor of moral theology: Alphonsus. Father Alphonsus Maria Sutton started a new phase of life at the age of 61.
The rhythm of Fr. Alphonsus' day didn't change much, except that he became known for an even greater spirit of obedience and humility. He was always ready to respond to the requests of his priestly ministry, whoever was able to always found him ready to hear confessions, always attentive, severe, but not harsh, esteemed by all who meant to walk seriously in the way of Christian perfection. Sometimes, conversations about moral theology would start and the opinion of a few priests didn't agree with the doctrine of Saint Alphonsus in a few points, but despite the younger age of who opposed him, Father Alphonsus didn't ever allow himself to arrogantly treat his co friar, nor did he patronize him that at times is more irritating than a sharp response. He always used to listen carefully and if he didn't agree, he would explain why, in the end remaining in silence if his reasons were not accepted by the other. He was a declared enemy of useless words.
The sun of Fr. Alphonsus' day was Holy Mass that he used to like to celebrate alone. He didn't adapt too well to concelebrating and would participate only when the circumstances advised him to. It was edifying to see the preparation he would make beforehand and above all, the thanksgiving that would ever omit. He would immerse himself in the mystery celebrated, pronouncing the words in a low voice - always using the Roman Canon - and with great recollection. A priest perceived how intensely Fr. Alphonsus would participate in Holy Mass when one day after going to confession to him, the priest heard Fr. Alphonsus admonish him, "Remember that to be a priest means to be a victim." Terrible words but sweetened by a luminous smile.
The entire life of Fr. Alphonsus was penetrated by the Eucharistic mystery. This penetration was favored by a constantly recollected soul that used to nurture itself only on the doctrine of the greats. He hardly used to read newspapers; one was able to habitually find in his hands, besides the Bible, also the writings of Saint Alphonsus, Saint Anthony Maria Claret and the works of Saint John of the Cross, the great Spanish mystic. The essence of this doctrine was then infused into his articles for 'Christ to the World', careful to transmit solid teaching to missionaries who would read the magazine, not only for their apostolate, but above all for their life. Other books that he would constantly re-read were the biographies of the holy martyrs. They were stories that used to move him to tears, especially when he would have the chance to recount them to others.
Such a readiness for sacrifice could not but reveal itself in a special way when, almost 70 years old, he received the proposal to go to the Philippines, to the mission opened by Casa Mariana in 1978. Willingly, without arguing, he said yes, certainly something that would not have been easy for him for a man of his age. A different climate, different people that he adapted himself to in a Franciscan way. In any case, he remained there only a few years; the evolution of the history of Casa Mariana, that quickly became independent giving birth to the actual Congregation of the Franciscans of the Immaculate allowed him to go back to Italy, and on the 23rd of June, 1990, he was among the first friars who professed their vows in the new religious family.
He continued his life like before. Initially in the Mother House in Frigento, then in Rome as the chaplain in the Mother House of the Franciscan Sisters of the Immaculate, where he continued to take care of the English edition of 'Christ to the World', often going to the magazine editorial office in the Propaganda Fidae building, where, together with his friend and later co-friar Father Basilio M. Arthadeva, used to share the 'problems of the universal Church', trying to fight the errors as much as possible.
With such a busy life, one could think that Father Alphonsus would be rather 'heavy', but as the reader will certainly have intuited between the lines, it was not like this. The episode already recounted about the cold shower transformed into a 'purgatorial' means of penance reveals a good dose of creativity and humor. Added to this are other episodes, not too frequent but make up a type of 'spark' of a truly, profoundly purified soul. and for this reason, capable of seeing human things, including his own in their correct dimensions that often make one laugh. Two episodes are enough to give an example of what we are talking about.
Father Alphonsus used to have breakfast later than the rest of the community, given that he often would celebrate Holy Mass by himself after the community had done so. His breakfast were famous, and one wasn't able to understand if he ate them with a spirit of penance or if he really liked to mix marmalade with eggplant preserved in oil and boiled bran, together with other things that were unidentifiable. He certainly knew that the other used to smile at this. One day, a co-friar that one day also had to eat breakfast later was in the kitchen while Fr. Alphonsus was consuming his bizarre menu; seeing his co-friar busy looking for what he needed to prepare himself something to eat, Father Alphonsus turned to him and offered what he had prepared, "Would you like some?" The quick - and unexpected - denial of the co-friar was received with an apparently indifferent but very eloquent air.
Another episode. Often times, Father Alphonsus would be offered a lift by the sisters of the Mother House from Marino where there General House is to the center of Rome. The co-sisters, all young, noticed that every time Father Alphonsus was in the car with them, he would cover his head with the capuche, trying to make himself as little as possible. Curious, they asked him why he would do that and Father, with his funny American accent and with a compunctious seriousness like a little boy would reply, "It's not good for people to see a priest in a car with beautiful girls." A chorus of joyful laughter accepted this observation. Later, when a co-friar asked him the same question and he received the same reply, he reassured him, "Don't worry, Father, rather the people, seeing you with the sisters could think you were their grandfather." Father thought for a moment and then humbly nodded, showing that he agreed with this consideration.
Another time, it was the Superior who gave Father a lift. During lunch in the apartment of 'Christ to the World', the co-friars present asked Fr. Alphonsus how he got to the office that day and immediately he replied, "I got married to Mother N." [in Italian, the verb 'to move around' is spostarsi, 'to get married' is sposarsi] Naturally, everyone laughed at this, and when a co-friar told him that he had said the wrong word, he managed to suffocate his laughter in a sob and quickly replied, "Of course I can't get married because I'm celibate!"
Little by little the years went by and Father Alphonsus always acquired more sweetness, like a good bottle of wine the acquires taste and warmth as it ages (this comparison came to me, given that Fr. Alphonsus rarely, if not ever drank wine). Finally, after many years, he went back to the United States, destined by obedience to the community of New Bedford where he continued his apostolate, thanks to the internet that allowed him to send his articles to the office in Rome. Added to this was a more intense activity as a confessor. Progressively however, his age increased and his strength diminished until he was no longer able to write, limiting himself to only hearing confession. He was always ready, despite the ailments and the increasing difficulties he had in moving around. In any case, he was never impatient or difficult to please; detached from everyone, above all from himself, he accepted being inactive, something that unfortunately many men, including priests do not always know how to accept with serenity, passing his time in prayer and rest that the doctors prescribed for his health. It was a luminous sunset, that of Father Alphonsus that we are convinced, arrived at an authentic spiritual childhood. And like a child, he fell asleep in the arms of the Immaculate on May 7th, 2011, the first Saturday of the month.
Goodbye, Father Alphonsus, rather, see you later. We are praying for you, if by chance you need our prayers, but you also need to pray for us who are still on pilgrimage in this difficult world. Beg Jesus for the grace of persevering in faith and in our vocation until we will see each other again to praise the greatness of God and the beauty of Mary for eternity.
Father Massimiliano M. Zangheratti
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